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I hate going networking!

by David Wimblett on December 19, 2012 · 1 comment

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAThis is something I hear pretty often and I heard it again this week, at the networking skills workshop that I was providing; so I guess no real surprise there.  The person knew that networking was good for their business but they hated it.

Now there are different reasons why people don’t like networking, so I asked the person concerned what their biggest fear was.  Their answer was – what it is in most cases, the biggest hurdle to those new to networking – who to talk to and what to say. [click to continue…]

Thanks to BNI, we all know that givers gain.

But what is ‘giving’? I’ve found there are four Phases, each one better than the last, but only when the time’s right for you…

Phase 1: “get” only

I joined BNI 12 years ago and, to be honest, did so for selfish reasons: I wanted to grow my business.  My main motivation was to get, not give. I have no problems admitting this – I was skint, recently divorced (both mean the same thing, I found) and wanted to do something that would help me.

I imagine you also joined BNI to get something?  Maybe new business, contacts or friends? All perfectly valid reasons, of course.

But they don’t get you many referrals.

And, in BNI, you can’t stay in Phase 1 for long – after all, it’s called givers gain not getters gain[click to continue…]

In most conversations people either ask, or get asked, “How’s business?”  It’s a normal conversation starter – or conversation ender, depending upon the answer! But in nearly every case you get a selection of the same answers: “It’s tough out there”, “it’s hard work”or“we’re doing ok, but we are working harder than ever. 

In business, it is so easy to fall into the trap of simply, going with the flow of things and never taking a step back and analysing where you are at. When it’s busy, we work very hard keeping up and when it’s not busy, we work even harder to get business back on track.  [click to continue…]

The lawyer who refused to specialise

by Richard White on July 2, 2012 · 0 comments

A while back I met a lawyer at a networking meeting. No surprise there! Networking is an important method of lead generation for lawyers. I was chatting to this particular lawyer and I asked him if he specialised in any particular aspect of law. He said that he was an expert in property law and went on to explain the potential problems that people can get into with property related contracts. I asked him why he did not mention that when we first started talking and he replied that he didn’t because he could also do other types of law too. He then confessed that he wasn’t getting much business from networking. [click to continue…]

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